Q. Dear Rabbi Friedman, I am a Jewish Convert. I am married and had problem having kids with my new wife, but I do have children from my previous marriage. I had froze my sperm to help get my new wife Pregnant but that didn’t work and know we are getting a divorce. What can or must I do with my frozen sperm? I no longer needs the sperm, what must I or can do now? Dispose of it? Donate it? Please help.

Dear Friend: I consulted with several Dayonim in Israel that specialize in fertility question. The answer I received was that…

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Can I tell my chosson (or husband after we are married) about how I am having a hard time dealing with my mother, or any member of my family, in order to get support, just vent, and get eitzos. IIt helps me a lot, and I try to stress that I love whomever i am talking about.

Dear Friend, this is not a simple question, it’s a very sensitive one. In my humble opinion you should “first”…

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I stopped speaking loshon horo and rechilus and try to be very careful. My question is why do I not have mazel I constantly have troubles especially with my children no nachos? Also parnassa does not come easily. I would like to give tons of charity to the needy and Torah scholars but the budget is never there. Please respond ton Debradzr@aol.com Thank You Devora

This is a great question. The truth is, however, that we can never fully understand the ways of Hashem. The…

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Bs’d Dear Rabbi: I must be bad with the computer. Anyway I can not find on your website the slots where to sign up for shmirat haloshon.You guard your tongue for two hours every day. I want to join a Machsum Lifu Do you have a form to fill out? Anyway I want to join. You can even tell me what hours to guard my tongue and pick them for me since I try to guard my speech all day anyway. I am sure others in the chesed club have joined and chose their two hours, My name is Devora My husband needs a refuah shelama he is moshe mordechai ben yehudit Thank you

Hi, we have added his name to our prayer list. Rafouh Shalima If you need help to sign up for…

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